The more you WANT…the less you GET

The more you WANT, the less you GET. Why the hell is that? Doesn’t it suck? Why yes, friend. It does suck. But it’s true. Haven’t you noticed? Whenever you want something super bad, it’s like every sort of disaster that could stand in the way of it… does. It’s not until we stop wanting, […]

Accepting that you may not be everyone’s cuppa tea 🫖

Good day, everyone. This post is about self acceptance. One of my absolute favorite sitcoms of all time is The Game starring Tia Mowry and Pooch Hall, the story of a young couple being broken in to the wild world of pro football culture in San Diego. At one point, the couple splits and Derwin, […]

Say Deuces to Your Detrimental Feelings

Y’all. Yesterday was such a struggle with my three-year-old. My husband and I have been talking about having another one soon, and today I was starting to wonder if I even wanted any more kids at all. Yes. It got bad. So what had happened was…he peed on the floor. *face palm* and…wait for it… […]

How to stop feeling broke ❌ 🥲

Many of us want more cash; more tangible wealth. Today we’re talking about where it starts…with how you FEEL. FEELING BROKE means your emotional strength is crushed. It means you feel incomplete, lacking, or useless. How can we stop feeling this way? Step 1 PUT YOURSELF TOGETHER. SERIOUSLY, it’s that easy. Well maybe it’s not […]

Think like a Vampire and Prosper? 🧛🏾‍♀️ ✨

I’ve got my velvet choker on, my sharp fangs are out, dark shadow on my eyes, and I’m wearing my cape. Why? Because today we’re talking about the Vampire’s Way to Psychic Self-Defense! If you are a person who struggles with feeling drained by people’s emotions and energy, I highly recommend this book by John […]

Don’t Rush the Process: The Value of Satisfaction 👍🏾☺️

This morning I took a cold shower. It was awful…and exhilarating. It wasn’t by choice…it’s just that no matter how far I turned the dial to heat…it was still cold! So I cringed and forced myself into the cold water. Then as it swam down my body I started to think… I feel like I’m […]

My Sweet Tooth Savior: Red Rose Strawberry Cheesecake Tea Review

In the brilliant words of Britney Spears: “You want a hot body, you want a Bugatti? You gotta work b*tch!” And for me, I gots to work on this sweet tooth of mine so I can create the body I want. Okay…so all that to say…I’m on a diet. I’m still logging my food in […]

Life is sour…then it’s sweet!

So…I’m my son’s hairstylist. While loading the dishwasher this morning, I was thinking about how much I’m dreading washing my son’s hair. Why? Because he HATES getting his hair touched at all. What’s more…this is how much hair he has: So then, as I continued filling up the dishwasher, I realized hey, MAYBE if we […]

The Power of Discomfort 🤦🏾‍♀️

I walk into his room, and like clockwork, his diaper and his pants are at his ankles. He stands there, smiling at me with his pants-less self. ”Come on, baby!” I yell. I sound mad, but I’m not really mad. And the toddler is smiling, so he knows where I’m coming from. I’m done feeling […]

Body Image Issues and How to Fall in Love with your physical body

Sometimes I take one look in the mirror and curse myself for ruining my day. *womp womp* Other times, I tell myself I’m gonna go makeup-less for the day and than a few hours pass and I’m like why the hell did you do that? *sigh* So what I’m saying is, I know about not […]