The more you WANT, the less you GET. Why the hell is that? Doesn’t it suck? Why yes, friend. It does suck. But it’s true. Haven’t you noticed? Whenever you want something super bad, it’s like every sort of disaster that could stand in the way of it… does. It’s not until we stop wanting, […]Read More The more you WANT…the less you GET
Now, I know what you’re thinking. Why would we choose to feel undeserving or unworthy? The answer is likely very simple… It’s the same reason we do a lot of things we do. Because we are comfortable with it. Think about it. If you’re used to complaining to folks about how much life sucks and […]Read More Feeling Undeserving is a CHOICE
Many of us crave more money, more resources, more happiness. But craving is different than wanting. Craving is intense. When you crave something, you want it so bad it hurts. Meaning…you’re hyper aware of what it’s like to NEED IT. Craving money could mean a lot of things but it probably falls under one of […]Read More A Few Reasons We May be Craving Money
Online shopping OR Work on my business? Brownie OR broccoli? Netflix Binge OR Workout? Why does it always seem like we’re at war between what we know we need, and what we want? Why are these two things always battling each other and what can we do to fix it? I’ll be blunt. I have […]Read More Needs vs. Wants: Can we have it all?
This morning I took a cold shower. It was awful…and exhilarating. It wasn’t by choice…it’s just that no matter how far I turned the dial to heat…it was still cold! So I cringed and forced myself into the cold water. Then as it swam down my body I started to think… I feel like I’m […]Read More Don’t Rush the Process: The Value of Satisfaction 👍🏾☺️
Everyday, at some point, my two year old throws all 37 lbs of himself on to the floor in a fit of rage. I remember one time my grandmother asked me, “How do you stay so calm when he’s yelling?” My first thought was… “She thinks I’m calm? I’m fuming…” Then I thought…”Grandma this isn’t […]Read More My Kid Helped me better Appreciate my Animal Mind!
Value=USEFULNESS Well, that seems simple enough then right? You become more valuable by becoming more useful. I know, this sounds way too simplistic. I feel the same way. Why do so many of us walk around feeling like we deserve so much more than we get from life? Are we all just delusional? I dont […]Read More How to become more VALUABLE 💚💰💵
So…I’m my son’s hairstylist. While loading the dishwasher this morning, I was thinking about how much I’m dreading washing my son’s hair. Why? Because he HATES getting his hair touched at all. What’s more…this is how much hair he has: So then, as I continued filling up the dishwasher, I realized hey, MAYBE if we […]Read More Life is sour…then it’s sweet!
Self Esteem= confidence in one’s own worth or abilities; self respect I’ve spent enough time with shaky self esteem to know that there’s only one way to build it: PRETEND! Lie! Delude yourself! Okay that’s an exaggeration, but seriously, in my experience you can’t really count on anyone to help you build your self esteem. […]Read More Practical Tips for Building SELF-Esteem
A romance is a love story. Erotica is um…a story about a sexual encounter. What’s the main difference? Heat level. As a reader(and writer) of both genres, I’ve noticed some of the differences. Read on to decide which is better for your personality. NO PATIENCE? Erotica is for you. Usually, erotica gets to the point […]Read More Romance or Erotica—which one is for you?