Everyday, at some point, my two year old throws all 37 lbs of himself on to the floor in a fit of rage. I remember one time my grandmother asked me, “How do you stay so calm when he’s yelling?” My first thought was… “She thinks I’m calm? I’m fuming…” Then I thought…”Grandma this isn’t […]
Read More My Kid Helped me better Appreciate my Animal Mind!Value=USEFULNESS Well, that seems simple enough then right? You become more valuable by becoming more useful. I know, this sounds way too simplistic. I feel the same way. Why do so many of us walk around feeling like we deserve so much more than we get from life? Are we all just delusional? I dont […]
Read More How to become more VALUABLE 💚💰💵So…I’m my son’s hairstylist. While loading the dishwasher this morning, I was thinking about how much I’m dreading washing my son’s hair. Why? Because he HATES getting his hair touched at all. What’s more…this is how much hair he has: So then, as I continued filling up the dishwasher, I realized hey, MAYBE if we […]
Read More Life is sour…then it’s sweet!Self Esteem= confidence in one’s own worth or abilities; self respect I’ve spent enough time with shaky self esteem to know that there’s only one way to build it: PRETEND! Lie! Delude yourself! Okay that’s an exaggeration, but seriously, in my experience you can’t really count on anyone to help you build your self esteem. […]
Read More Practical Tips for Building SELF-EsteemA romance is a love story. Erotica is um…a story about a sexual encounter. What’s the main difference? Heat level. As a reader(and writer) of both genres, I’ve noticed some of the differences. Read on to decide which is better for your personality. NO PATIENCE? Erotica is for you. Usually, erotica gets to the point […]
Read More Romance or Erotica—which one is for you?My palms soaked the steering wheel as I stared at my lips in the rear-view mirror. My bare, crackled lips had eaten all of the lip oil I’d applied. Like my late mother, I feared I would die of old age, and a lack of beauty. She’d written me a note in her last days […]
Read More A Wizard’s Love: Fantasy Flash FictionEvery morning I seduce myself with a cup of coffee. Before I drink my cup of joe, I must make my bed, workout, and make myself look presentable. I make a deal with myself. What’s the result? The coffee was damn good, because I enjoyed the art of the seduction process. So why would you […]
Read More How to Seduce yourselfI can’t afford to get caught up in the bullshit that life brings-Trinidad James Here is the thing. I hope your life is going well right now and all that. But…something we should remember is… Life isn’t about being where you want to be, and remaining there indefinitely. Life is about MOVEMENT. Every slice of […]
Read More Make Peace with the Bullsh*t that Life Brings: A short Motivational Rant.☮️💩I love beauty. Not just the cosmetic industry, but the psychology of it, the science of it, the power of it, and the crazy way that it impacts our day to day lives. Beauty Pays, is a well known idea. There’s even a book about it. It’s a valuable asset. The less superficial of us […]
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Read More The Side Boo: A Poem
Nia Venus 