Everyday, at some point, my two year old throws all 37 lbs of himself on to the floor in a fit of rage. I remember one time my grandmother asked me, “How do you stay so calm when he’s yelling?” My first thought was… “She thinks I’m calm? I’m fuming…” Then I thought…”Grandma this isn’t […]Read More My Kid Helped me better Appreciate my Animal Mind!
I walk into his room, and like clockwork, his diaper and his pants are at his ankles. He stands there, smiling at me with his pants-less self. ”Come on, baby!” I yell. I sound mad, but I’m not really mad. And the toddler is smiling, so he knows where I’m coming from. I’m done feeling […]Read More The Power of Discomfort 🤦🏾♀️
I remember throwing a party, or trying to, when I was 21 and only a couple of people showed. *face palm* You know what that taught me? Ain’t nobody gonna stop my shine. Yesterday was my birthday. It was a pretty typical day for me, and it wasn’t until the very end of it that […]Read More A Wonderfully Boring Birthday 🙃
A romance is a love story. Erotica is um…a story about a sexual encounter. What’s the main difference? Heat level. As a reader(and writer) of both genres, I’ve noticed some of the differences. Read on to decide which is better for your personality. NO PATIENCE? Erotica is for you. Usually, erotica gets to the point […]Read More Romance or Erotica—which one is for you?
An emotion, by it’s very nature, is energy moving. This is good news for those of us who find ourselves stuck in certain emotions. Why? Because you can change them—emotions move! You are not your emotions. You experience your emotions, based on the thoughts and beliefs you hold. As humans, we are easily controlled by […]Read More How to use your emotions
Sometimes I take one look in the mirror and curse myself for ruining my day. *womp womp* Other times, I tell myself I’m gonna go makeup-less for the day and than a few hours pass and I’m like why the hell did you do that? *sigh* So what I’m saying is, I know about not […]Read More Body Image Issues and How to Fall in Love with your physical body
I just took two shots of tequila before sharing some of my fiction with a Facebook group today, just to calm my nerves. Okay, cats out of the bag. I’m a writer, and sometimes I’m sensitive about my shit. *Erykah Badu voice* The thing is, I don’t want to be sensitive anymore. Being sensitive is […]Read More How to be less sensitive about your shit…learning detachment
*singing* How do you love? Are you for sure? Do you know your Venus sign? Did you know you had one? Yep, just like our astrological sun sign, we all have a Venus sign too. The Venus sign represents our values and also, how we show love to others. If you’d like to find your […]Read More This is how you show love according to astrology
Happy Valentine’s Day! Today we’re talking about how self-love makes you a better lover. I don’t just mean this romantically. Not only does loving yourself fully make you more attractive, it also inspires others to love themselves, too. It’s a beautiful cycle of love and acceptance. Self-love is not about being arrogant or selfish. It’s […]Read More How Practicing Self-Love Makes you a Better Lover
It’s cold and rainy and my boyfriend has me on a damn rollercoaster. I love this man, but damn! He knows about my fear of heights, and of getting my weave wet, but does he care? Not in the least. I turn to him, shakily. “Will you hold my hand?” He scoffs and proceeds […]Read More Love in Mind: Flash Fiction