Seriously, what is it? I ask myself all the time because I know for many it seems synonymous with things like… sacrifice passion sex and lust modesty self-denial for the sake of another But I would have to say the purest definition of love, I’ve discovered, is more synonymous with words like rhis: God wholeness […]
Read More What is love? ❤️💔❤️🩹Not so ironically, I’m drinking wine right now. 🍷 I’m in our dining room which is inhabited by my husband’s bulky ass full-fledged drum set, taking up half the space. In front of me is a rug I love, rolled up because my three year old peed on it. So…anyway…now that you’re with me. In […]
Read More Reasons I love the Wine Mom Trope (feat. Good Girls) 🍷Happy Friday, Folks! Just a little reminder that fiction has it’s benefits! Get you some. Love, Nia Venus 💋 AS a heads up…. I am currently working on: A science-fiction romance novella. Will there be an alien race? Yes! Free Chapter preview coming: May 2022 An urban fiction romance story with SOUL authors. This short […]
Read More Why read fiction? 3 reasons 😋Every single day, there is something new to look at when raising a little person. Some days there may be poop in places I don’t want it to be, and I may be annoyed have to clean it up. Some days I witness a three year old using impressive addition skills, or reading his first […]
Read More STAY UP by looking UpHey Perfectionist! How are you today? Did you jump out of bed and perfectly make your bed…and then take a perfect shower and eat the perfect breakfast? Of course you did. You wouldn’t be you if you didn’t. Well, I’m a retired perfectionist. I gave that up after teaching middle school and having my first […]
Read More Dear stressed out perfectionist: Remember these thingsI like to present myself as a positive person, but since we live in a dual universe, half the time what I’m presenting is actually a lie. Womp. You see, the gripe I have with the idea of mere love and light psychology is that sometimes it demonizes any and all forms of negativity, as […]
Read More Are you afraid Of negativity?You can bet your bottom dollar it has something to do with your thoughts and feelings. We are always manifesting. Our dominant thoughts and feelings work together to create the tone of our existence. But what does it mean when we don’t like what were seeing manifest in our lives? Here’s what I think based […]
Read More When You don’t like what you are manifesting…**Well, that was a fail. ** 🤷🏾♀️ Its a rainy day in Atlanta and I just got back from storytime with my three year old son, and the sentence above pretty much sums up my initial feelings about it. When we first got into the room, things were cool. We were early, so story time […]
Read More Influence is greater than ForceThe more you WANT, the less you GET. Why the hell is that? Doesn’t it suck? Why yes, friend. It does suck. But it’s true. Haven’t you noticed? Whenever you want something super bad, it’s like every sort of disaster that could stand in the way of it… does. It’s not until we stop wanting, […]
Read More The more you WANT…the less you GETWe recently moved from Colorado to Atlanta, and the meat thermometer decided it wanted to stay in the west I guess. As such, lately I’ve been cooking meat without one. *cue ominous music* I’ve been making a lot of chicken on the stovetop and I quickly realized how much I’d given my confidence to that […]
Read More What cooking without a meat thermometer taught me about CONFIDENCE
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