The Reason it gets Lonely at the Top

The top of what, you ask? The top of whatever it is you are doing. Whether you are a CEO, art Student, Mom, Fry cook, or billionaire celebrity. It can get lonely at the top of your game. But WHY is it lonely there? Because not everyone wants to do what it takes climb that […]

Are you afraid Of negativity?

I like to present myself as a positive person, but since we live in a dual universe, half the time what I’m presenting is actually a lie. Womp. You see, the gripe I have with the idea of mere love and light psychology is that sometimes it demonizes any and all forms of negativity, as […]

The more you WANT…the less you GET

The more you WANT, the less you GET. Why the hell is that? Doesn’t it suck? Why yes, friend. It does suck. But it’s true. Haven’t you noticed? Whenever you want something super bad, it’s like every sort of disaster that could stand in the way of it… does. It’s not until we stop wanting, […]

Accepting that you may not be everyone’s cuppa tea 🫖

Good day, everyone. This post is about self acceptance. One of my absolute favorite sitcoms of all time is The Game starring Tia Mowry and Pooch Hall, the story of a young couple being broken in to the wild world of pro football culture in San Diego. At one point, the couple splits and Derwin, […]

What cooking without a meat thermometer taught me about CONFIDENCE

We recently moved from Colorado to Atlanta, and the meat thermometer decided it wanted to stay in the west I guess. As such, lately I’ve been cooking meat without one. *cue ominous music* I’ve been making a lot of chicken on the stovetop and I quickly realized how much I’d given my confidence to that […]

A Few Reasons We May be Craving Money

Many of us crave more money, more resources, more happiness. But craving is different than wanting. Craving is intense. When you crave something, you want it so bad it hurts. Meaning…you’re hyper aware of what it’s like to NEED IT. Craving money could mean a lot of things but it probably falls under one of […]

Say Deuces to Your Detrimental Feelings

Y’all. Yesterday was such a struggle with my three-year-old. My husband and I have been talking about having another one soon, and today I was starting to wonder if I even wanted any more kids at all. Yes. It got bad. So what had happened was…he peed on the floor. *face palm* and…wait for it… […]

Why Knowing Yourself is Harder than it Sounds. And what to do about it

Know yourself. Anyone ever told you to do that? In that muted, condescending tone? I hate it! Maybe I’m just a weirdo, but I’m constantly getting to know myself. I never feel truly certain about who I am or who I want to be. If you can relate to that feeling, maybe this post will […]

Needs vs. Wants: Can we have it all?

Online shopping OR Work on my business? Brownie OR broccoli? Netflix Binge OR Workout? Why does it always seem like we’re at war between what we know we need, and what we want? Why are these two things always battling each other and what can we do to fix it? I’ll be blunt. I have […]

Ariel vs. Ursula Mentality: Which one do you use?

Ursula: “The only way to get what you want…is to become human yourself…” Ariel: *Widened eyes…* “Can you do that?” Ursula: “My dear sweet child..That’s what I do! It’s what I live for. To help unfortunate mer-folk like yourself…” … Ariel: “But I won’t get to see my family if I become human…” Ursula: “But […]