The more you WANT, the less you GET. Why the hell is that? Doesn’t it suck? Why yes, friend. It does suck. But it’s true. Haven’t you noticed? Whenever you want something super bad, it’s like every sort of disaster that could stand in the way of it… does. It’s not until we stop wanting, […]Read More The more you WANT…the less you GET
Good day, everyone. This post is about self acceptance. One of my absolute favorite sitcoms of all time is The Game starring Tia Mowry and Pooch Hall, the story of a young couple being broken in to the wild world of pro football culture in San Diego. At one point, the couple splits and Derwin, […]Read More Accepting that you may not be everyone’s cuppa tea 🫖
We recently moved from Colorado to Atlanta, and the meat thermometer decided it wanted to stay in the west I guess. As such, lately I’ve been cooking meat without one. *cue ominous music* I’ve been making a lot of chicken on the stovetop and I quickly realized how much I’d given my confidence to that […]Read More What cooking without a meat thermometer taught me about CONFIDENCE
Many of us crave more money, more resources, more happiness. But craving is different than wanting. Craving is intense. When you crave something, you want it so bad it hurts. Meaning…you’re hyper aware of what it’s like to NEED IT. Craving money could mean a lot of things but it probably falls under one of […]Read More A Few Reasons We May be Craving Money
Y’all. Yesterday was such a struggle with my three-year-old. My husband and I have been talking about having another one soon, and today I was starting to wonder if I even wanted any more kids at all. Yes. It got bad. So what had happened was…he peed on the floor. *face palm* and…wait for it… […]Read More Say Deuces to Your Detrimental Feelings
Know yourself. Anyone ever told you to do that? In that muted, condescending tone? I hate it! Maybe I’m just a weirdo, but I’m constantly getting to know myself. I never feel truly certain about who I am or who I want to be. If you can relate to that feeling, maybe this post will […]Read More Why Knowing Yourself is Harder than it Sounds. And what to do about it
Online shopping OR Work on my business? Brownie OR broccoli? Netflix Binge OR Workout? Why does it always seem like we’re at war between what we know we need, and what we want? Why are these two things always battling each other and what can we do to fix it? I’ll be blunt. I have […]Read More Needs vs. Wants: Can we have it all?
Ursula: “The only way to get what you want…is to become human yourself…” Ariel: *Widened eyes…* “Can you do that?” Ursula: “My dear sweet child..That’s what I do! It’s what I live for. To help unfortunate mer-folk like yourself…” … Ariel: “But I won’t get to see my family if I become human…” Ursula: “But […]Read More Ariel vs. Ursula Mentality: Which one do you use?
It’s almost over but…HAPPY MERCURY RETROGRADE! (If you believe in that sort of thing…) 😬 In honor of this time of revision and reflection, this post is about mental clutter and some ways to clear it out so you can breathe a bit easier in your daily life. Sometimes we overload our minds with junk, […]Read More Mental Clutter and a few ways to Clear it 🙃🧠
Everyday, at some point, my two year old throws all 37 lbs of himself on to the floor in a fit of rage. I remember one time my grandmother asked me, “How do you stay so calm when he’s yelling?” My first thought was… “She thinks I’m calm? I’m fuming…” Then I thought…”Grandma this isn’t […]Read More My Kid Helped me better Appreciate my Animal Mind!