I like to present myself as a positive person, but since we live in a dual universe, half the time what I’m presenting is actually a lie. Womp. You see, the gripe I have with the idea of mere love and light psychology is that sometimes it demonizes any and all forms of negativity, as […]Read More Are you afraid Of negativity?
I hope he thinks I’m cute! What will they say if I wear this? Maybe I shouldn’t do that…what if they say… These are the typical thoughts of a people pleaser. How do I know? Because I’ve been a pleaser. Fortunately, I’ve also been a complete i-don’t-give-a-rat’s-right-ass-cheek-what-you-think type as well. In short, I’m familiar with […]Read More Signs you are a People-Pleaser…and remedies…
I’ve got my velvet choker on, my sharp fangs are out, dark shadow on my eyes, and I’m wearing my cape. Why? Because today we’re talking about the Vampire’s Way to Psychic Self-Defense! If you are a person who struggles with feeling drained by people’s emotions and energy, I highly recommend this book by John […]Read More Think like a Vampire and Prosper? 🧛🏾♀️ ✨
In the brilliant words of Britney Spears: “You want a hot body, you want a Bugatti? You gotta work b*tch!” And for me, I gots to work on this sweet tooth of mine so I can create the body I want. Okay…so all that to say…I’m on a diet. I’m still logging my food in […]Read More My Sweet Tooth Savior: Red Rose Strawberry Cheesecake Tea Review
So…ya girl is on a workout high. I just finished this video workout: Don’t you just love that feeling of giddiness you get after a workout? Your mind feels clearer, and your spirits are lifted? That’s how I felt after finishing this workout. Now I’m about to try out this plant protein by Olly. I […]Read More Velvet Vanilla Adventures: Olly Plant Protein Review
A romance is a love story. Erotica is um…a story about a sexual encounter. What’s the main difference? Heat level. As a reader(and writer) of both genres, I’ve noticed some of the differences. Read on to decide which is better for your personality. NO PATIENCE? Erotica is for you. Usually, erotica gets to the point […]Read More Romance or Erotica—which one is for you?
Sometimes I take one look in the mirror and curse myself for ruining my day. *womp womp* Other times, I tell myself I’m gonna go makeup-less for the day and than a few hours pass and I’m like why the hell did you do that? *sigh* So what I’m saying is, I know about not […]Read More Body Image Issues and How to Fall in Love with your physical body
When I started watching Dare Me on Netflix, and my husband immediately started messing around on his iPad, I knew it was a series just for me. **rubs hands together mischievously** I was hooked on the intense dynamic between the secretly ambitious Addy and bad-girl Beth, and beyond that, it took me back to my […]Read More Dare Me: The Netflix Cheer Mystery that was so good I had to read the novel…
I love beauty. Not just the cosmetic industry, but the psychology of it, the science of it, the power of it, and the crazy way that it impacts our day to day lives. Beauty Pays, is a well known idea. There’s even a book about it. It’s a valuable asset. The less superficial of us […]Read More 48 Laws of Beauty: The power of Beauty and How to Harness It
A romance trope is a popular theme in a romance novel or film. Below I list a few of my favorites! Alpha Male/Billionaire– Because, duh! Who doesn’t like a strong, rich, asshole man? Sure they’re annoying and everything, but you can’t deny the appeal. I personally do not believe the alpha male has to be […]Read More My Top 3 Romance Fiction Tropes